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How do you stop a stubborn toddler saying no to everything?

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Anonymous 
This is sometimes because they want to be in control of something. Try giving them a choice instead of just one thing. For example, 'you can have A or B'. This can trick them into thinking they're in control. This works even with a single action, just change the timing e.g. if they're refusing a bath you could say 'You can have a bath now or in 5 minutes'. They'll chose the 5 minutes and you remind them of that. They'll think it was THEIR choice. Surprisingly effective.
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Anonymous 
This is sometimes because they want to be in control of something. Try giving them a choice instead of just one thing. For example, 'you can have A or B'. This can trick them into thinking they're in control. This works even with a single action, just change the timing e.g. if they're refusing a bath you could say 'You can have a bath now or in 5 minutes'. They'll chose the 5 minutes and you remind them of that. They'll think it was THEIR choice. Surprisingly effective.
Sophisticaz 
Love the small choices did this with my eldest with clothes 'Which jumper do you want to wear?' Toddler's brains are going through a change and they at this stage start to understand that they are seperate beings who can influence things around them so the above comment is good advice. Try to ignore/avoid the behaviour as children love attention but cannot at this age reason to well. Emotions are so big and they cannot control them yet.

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